Not Your
Cookie-Cutter Coach
In the fourth grade, I wrote my first book, "The Adventure of the Love Life” on how to get a girlfriend. This scrappy scotch-taped foldable booklet made of construction paper and markers, was full of wild ideas about sex, making babies, and talking to girls—a manifesto from a 10-year-old who had no clue but was damn curious.
From the start, I was obsessed with unraveling the challenges of relationships. But here’s the kicker: it wasn’t always easy for me. I was the designated guy friend, not the boyfriend. Girls liked having me around, but dating? Forget it. So, I fell into this role of the middleman, the bridge between my guy friends and their crushes. They came to me for advice or to unload their emotional baggage, knowing I’d relay their messages to the other side. I was the unofficial relationship therapist before I even hit puberty.
Who names themselves Confidence Chris?
I knew my time would come, but that "middleman" label stuck like glue. I’ve always been a leader, quick-witted, and a great communicator. Sure, I was also a little asshole trouble maker too, but I was smart. In college, I was the president and one of the founding fathers of my fraternity (yikes—fuckboy alert!). I was still figuring myself out, but in the process, I continued to hone my skills as a guide for others.
After wrapping up my master's in global management, I landed a “career” at a massive corporation. But to be real—I hated the suit and tie. I knew I was destined for more. I dove deep into self-growth, devouring books on relationships, self-confidence, spirituality, and philosophy. I revamped my appearance (you should see my photos from five years ago) and hustled my ass off creating videos and launching my mentorship business.
I saw the impact my advice had on people, and that's when everything clicked. My following exploded, and I ditched my corporate job to become a full-time mentor. I found my purpose.
THE TURNING POINT...
I want to help people find themselves genuinely like I have found myself. This isn't just about dating—it's about showing you the power of owning who you are and giving you the tools to live life on your terms.
After years of mentoring a community of high-value and high-performing individuals, I have gained invaluable insights into the varied perspectives, challenges, and triumphs people encounter on their romantic journeys.
I might not have a conventional title, polished appearance, or sugar-coated candor. But I know how to help you break free from your deep-rooted dating patterns and insecurities, set boundaries, and find the love you've always wanted.
Are you ready to stop settling? Let’s get to work.
WORK WITH ME
This pursuit has never been about the money, I want to transform lives.
It’s not about finding the one, it’s about becoming the one
Your relationships are a manifestation of your mindset
I believe:
You deserve more than crumbs and half-ass effort
I believe:
The law of attraction:
like attracts like
I believe:
We all have negative relationship patterns that need to be mastered
